When is your child old enough to stay home alone? Whether you’re running a 20-minute daytime errand or going out to dinner for the evening, just how old is old enough?

Like most states, Virginia law actually doesn’t specify a minimum age at which children may be left alone. So how do you decide? Experts say your decision shouldn’t be based on age alone. So here are some questions to help you make your decision:

1.      1. Maturity: Does your child act his age, or is he “young” for his age?

2.      2. Responsibility: Does your child use good judgment and follow directions?

3.      3. Attitude and feelings: Will your child be afraid at home alone? Will she feel deserted?

4.      4. Time of day: How will your child feel if it’s dark outside?

5.      5. Length of time: Is your child ready for a short period of time alone? Try that first.

6.      6. Parental support: Can you be reached easily if you’re needed?

7.      7. Community support: Is there a trusted adult nearby who can help if needed?

8.      8. Number of children: Which of your kids will be in charge? Will your other children respect your decision?

9.      9. Neighborhood: Is it safe for your child to be alone outside, and can she handle things like crossing the street by herself?

10.   10. Home: Do your children know what to do in an emergency like a fire, or how to handle phone calls and visitors?

A final thought: When you leave the house, your child will need to make adult decisions in your absence. Can your child handle that?